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Happy Birthday to our youngest child. Montana has turned 16 years old. She is in year 11 at Bellingen Public High School and she has a boyfriend and his name is Anaan and he just had his birthday as well and he is 17 now.
Montana and I have always had fun together, I felt like I had a playmate finally when she came along. Oh that is a healthy outlook isn't it, Not. We are here to be their parents not their friends or so the saying goes. I just wanted a playmate that would not judge me and I could grow up accordingly. Yes... if you are thinking there is something wrong with this statement then you are correct. Adults are supposed to have already grown up past this point.
There is a direct correlation between living in institutional care and being held back emotionally. The adult then has the emotions of a child and needs to complete the proper psycho social tasks in order to be complete in their psyche. I just wanted to know how to play. I never ever learned how to play. Play is the serious business of learning to a child.
Montana and I have always had fun together, I felt like I had a playmate finally when she came along. Oh that is a healthy outlook isn't it, Not. We are here to be their parents not their friends or so the saying goes. I just wanted a playmate that would not judge me and I could grow up accordingly. Yes... if you are thinking there is something wrong with this statement then you are correct. Adults are supposed to have already grown up past this point.
There is a direct correlation between living in institutional care and being held back emotionally. The adult then has the emotions of a child and needs to complete the proper psycho social tasks in order to be complete in their psyche. I just wanted to know how to play. I never ever learned how to play. Play is the serious business of learning to a child.
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